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You Can Stop Caring About Opinions This Way
Be a content extractor.
I care about people more than anybody else. I won’t stop it, however.
Yes, I react with heart or a fire emoji on someone’s posts on something I don’t know anything about.
Sometimes all we can do is not to make someone lose. And maybe my reaction means someone not losing. Losing means losing confidence in themselves.
But I stopped caring about people’s opinions of me. I even want people to think me crazy. I pretend to be dumber than I am.
I learned a few lessons for you.
Content Extractors Doesn’t Care
I was a writer. I used to curate “best stuff.” I now write my thoughts for people to think.
Everything is now content for me. Writing sure is my romantic partner but every article I produce isn’t my baby.
Use content extraction as a source to make sense of the world.
I became a content extractor. I learn and then share. I experiment like crazy to make sense of this world better so others can make sense of it faster.
Everything you do becomes an experiment when you are a content extractor. Experiment means learning. Learning becomes sharing. Sharing becomes amplifying. Amplifying means impacting. Impacting is everything you need.
Everything you face and feel goes into you through a content extraction lens and there’s no space for feeling bad there.
Pain becomes fun when you want to share it as something others can learn.
Others option doesn’t matter when you’re a content extractor because you know you can easily move on to something better.
